Pity Party

I threw myself a pity party last night.  First my grandaughter got my car sideswiped in a parking lot while I was away, going to the shop next week.  When I got to my car after work, someone hit the other side of the car.  Hopefully they can fix it at the same time. 
I have had a stomach bug since Sunday night and missed a half day of work Monday.  I worked extra Tuesday, because Wednesday was my only day off this week, because of Halloween.  I manage a bakery.  Last night my decorator texted me, saying her daughter was sick, and she couldn't come in.  I had to go in today.
I was feeling sick, upset about the car, and then this on top of everything, I just broke into tears, then I was upset I didn't have anyone to listen to me complain, like my husband would do.  I needed him to make it better, to have a shoulder to cry on, to let me know it would be alright.
I feel alittle better today and I guess I'll always have those days, when I miss him so much more than others.

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doyew
doyew

Well, anyone would get upset with the car damaged on BOTH sides! Plus a stomach bug, and your help was not coming in. Sometimes, when it rains it pours -- as they say. I\'m hoping you feel good by tomorrow, and it won\'t be too big a job to get your car fixed. I know it is very hard to face these upsetting times without your husband\'s listening ear.

I did get to Middendorf\'s last Saturday nite, and enjoyed it immensely. I visited my cousin in Loranger for 3 days & saw lots of old friends & relatives. Lifted my spirits immensely!
Hugs- Doye
deleted_user
deleted_user

Some days I hate to go home. I am fortunate that my cat will listen to me. Doye is right, it pours sometimes. I hope you are feeling better. Everything seems worse when we don\'t feel good. The car will get fixed and Halloween will be over soon. Sending a (((big hug))). Mary Anne
deauxgirl
deauxgirl

Thanks for the reassurances. Doye, glad you had a nice time in New Orleans.
deleted_user
deleted_user

Pity parties are allowed in our situation. I hope today is better for you.
Hugs...Nancy
deleted_user
deleted_user

The pity parties are OK. Just remember that the \"awful, terrible, horrible, really bad days\" are almost always followed by a few days of peace and quiet. Hoping today is one of those \"slightly better\" days.
Big hugs, Dianne