PHOTO you can easily judge character by how one treats those who can do nothing for him/her//faceboo

 
 
spent SIX hours yesterday and again today, specifically looking for photos with these sayings.  i trade jokes on line, the old way, e mail and ordinary print, but having trouble with the albums thing for photos in facebook etc., and then it wouldn't copy over.  grrrr.  hope its me and it will improve.
 
this is from the group:  "we are humanity" in facebook and the one on vietnam i think was from the same one, "sick of old men inventing wars for young men to die in."  george mcgovern.    or war is organized murder and nothing more.  there is some hilarious stuff in "no hope for humanity" on facebook.  a gang of stray cats at someone's door saying:  "we heard you are over 40 and never married."    and in back to nature, which has links to the rest of the thought provoking groups.   
 
"poverty is the worst form of abuse/violence"  ghandi.  so people who steal from you are actually using theft as a deadly weapon against you.  definitely feels that way.  i know stevend has so much on his plate sorting through his sister's things, because so much of it belongs to other people.  bda stole THREE of my plane tickets to spain (she'd robbed the tickets with the help of karenb (who is still alive).  she would steal a ticket from my purse, and i'd go buy another one thinking it was me somehow -- then she stole the new one bought, and i bought another one and was like wtf? then she stole that one....wth?  she was getting into my condo from valerieL who had copied my keys, and into my purse with the help of karenb while i was working.  wth?   and an insurance policy, right before i left for spain.  i threw up when i found out it was her.  still not paid either and there is waaaaay more.  davidb stole even more than bda, also still not paid. 
 
its amazing this stuff goes on.  
 
"be led by your dreams (and nothing else)" ralph waldo emerson.
 
boblittle who likes to harrass me, was by our office again.  he wanted me to do his loan about six years ago and we don't do mobiles, i looked at it as a favor for a friend who owned it.  told him the rate.  he didn't want it and insisted his bank could do better.  i told him to go with his bank.  turned out he lied to his bank saying he had a house not a mobile and they wouldn't finance him.  on and on.  for some reason he expects me to remember him from this on sight.  about every six months, he shows up at our office for the passed six years and thinks i'll know who he is on sight.  i don't know this man at all.  i never recognize him and he is always rude and pissed that i don't know who he is.  (i'll never know who he is, we get way over 20 clients per week, 50 weeks in a year, that is 1000 people and we never took his loan or closed it.  why would i know him?  its very weird.  i thought nothing of it, until i ran into him at my church which is 40 minutes from his house.  he had no reason to be there either and was mad that i didn't know who he is again.  then he sneers at me that i am still at the same job for so many years?  what the fuck?  i think he is out of work or laid off, but why show up around me.  i finally remember he is the man with the "trailer" i say to him.  he corrects me, its a mobile home on an acre.  listed with hud.  i don't know the situation, don't even want to know.  why is he coming around here?  very creepy.  he also wanted me to do his loan after he moved and i told him to use a local bank.  he's too creepy and its not worth it to be around people like that.  i have a feeling no one wants to do business with him.  i know i still won't remember him when he returns a few months from now.  but at least i am writing it down.  i hate when crap like this happens.  when i was young, i thought it was from youth, i'm old now, so why does it still happen?  guess it just does?  very weird though (and yes he is married and no i'd never be interested in him ever, he's harsh, that type).  unfortunately, he knew jf who died, except jf wasn't a friend of choice either, he was someone who kept showing up.  grrrr.  
 
paid the lawn guy finally, discovered he was the one knocking on the door.  w and i thought it was the new people behind us.  he never left a bill and i'm rarely at the house down south unless i'm sleeping.  so far so good with this landscaper.  when he does the estate across the lane, which is a full acre (we are one quarter) he does mine after that.  he's very reasonable and if he does anything extra he would add it on.  he does a mow and trim he calls it.   today, he edged it as well, but the bill was the same.  w says he is cutting at 2 inch and it should be 2 1/2 inch because the lawn will hold more water that way?     
 
went to the church sales yesterday and today, one is an outreach and i gave her info from the church as they need a new place for where they are selling and the church throws away a lot of the stuff people donate.  amazing all the waste out there.  fun at the sales though, so much of it is brand new with labels and books never read etc.  one of the guys is going to chicago with a friend who lost his wife and concerned about the drive.  ada was there and has a new spray that helps with the animals.  have to remember to get it for w's dog as well.  it needs it. 
 
still reeling over leo.  have no idea what happened with that.  trying to trace it back.  look all of it up and figure it out.  its my way.  i don't just grieve, i research and i learn and i feel better if i can find answers.   can't piece it together.  wish i had better skills.  need to look for land without k because he drags his feet and j won't consider it at all.  doing the book the vacation thing, still debating.  i know what i want in the winter, but i don't know now and would LOVE to be away for two weeks or a month but can't with the animals unless rn took care of them?  who knows.  
 
another good one was "its not consent, if you make me AFRAID to say no."  amazing what goes on out there.  that creep castro got 1000 years in jail or something for holding the three women captive.  his lawyer claims he's mental.  no shit, if you are holding people captive, obviously you are mental.  wtf?  castro argued, its not, its "consensual" hmmmm maybe he doesn't know what that word means?  
 
"do it yourself because no one else will"  is all over facebook.  so true.  its said better in some of the photos.