PHOTO: CAT WATCHING fish tank. lol. so classic//v's cats are missing//paneras with j

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this cat is so classic.  my orange and white twin cats look like this, same size and form.  lol.  
 
had an adoption from hell that i still haven't journalled about.  and because of bt's death, was on the phone with nick, who had a lot to say about his mother being bi-polar and bi-polar schizophrenic.  explains a lot of verrrrry weird occurances with her.  one of my ex's from PA who was also a boss of mine, hated her and made me promise to never be friends with her when he visited me down here, back when we had the other beach house and after i had moved back to florida from up north.  he was soooo serious.  it was like, there is something seriously wrong with that woman, i mean it.  i'm like, okay, its just during school (college) no big deal, you meet a lot of people during school.  
 
she is still working as a nurse now, and i'm thinking and what happens on days when she doesn't take her meds, that was the big problem with her.  this part gets huge, so another journal, another day.  his mom's view seems to be to drag everyone down with her, since she has to deal with this awful illness, how can she screw up all the people around her.  scary.  why isn't social service doing anything about that?  visitation yes, but him having to deal with that through a lot of his childhood is ridiculous.  never realized what a total mess that was. 
 
the impression i get is in the 90's (and before that), the concern was more that an adult person get to be a parent, rather than what was best for the child (just the opposite of russia where everything is done for the children first, and equally) after they turn 18, they are on their own, but up until then, kids come first.  in usa it seems like the child doesn't matter at all.  is it still like that?  i don't know any social workers so no one to ask that question to. 
 
need to get back to my car shopping.  hope nothing else whacko happens.  when i checked my e mail, there is like 12 e mails from the adoption from hell and none of what she says adds up.  i keep asking her to just return the animal.  the impression i get is she has no experience with animals, though she claims to have had her cat for ten years that died and the other one for two years.  so she is one of those pathological liar people, which makes me wonder if the kittie is safe.  wth?  when i googled her name i didn't see anything though. 
 
another restaurant closed down over here, one of the places that i like their chicken parm.  so j and i went to paneras instead.  its okay, all of the chain restaurants are bad, they have gmo food.   all i think when i go to those places nowadays is this food is full of cancer.  lol. 
 
still car shopping.  every time i think i'm near done, something else comes up to sidetrack me.  wish it would stop.  v just called and says his cats are missing.  hoping his son has them.  he left his front door unlocked today and he thinks whoever delivers newspapers took the cats or opened the door and the cats went out.  i'm hoping he finds them quick.  they are both declawed.  wonder how much other stuff happens that i don't know about (its one of the reasons i don't want to work at a shelter.  i couldn't handle it.)
 

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carlyj1202
carlyj1202

LOL. That cat is so cute watching that fish tank.

You\'re still looking for a car? You are a very picky shopper. What are you using to get around?

I think you might have it wrong but I couldn\'t say for sure. But I think in the USA the kids DO seem to come first. I hope so anyway.

I hope you had a great day.
Hugs.
38lbs
38lbs

my car works perfect. i only started looking 2 weeks ago. before that i was taking care of the medical and i really wasn\'t feeling okay. then all of a sudden i could feel myself heal. so that was good.

i test drove a few. then wanted to test drive a few others to narrow it down and i ended up doing a rescue.

yeah, still looking. i actually LIKE the yaris, but it pisses everyone off when i say i like it. then i think, this car is for ME, not others. i also like the scion et i think its called, its a two door sport hatchback. didn\'t try it yet. the other scion is too choppy, so maybe not. no one recommends the honda? don\'t know why. not ONE person.