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I already wrote about Brenda & her photographer-boyfriend (erstwhile). Well, that was too long ago to bring up just casually. Who knows where a "talk" like that would lead? I don't want to do start such a discussion. It's too late. I hadn't the proof of her peccadillo when it occurred; it took 10 years to have proof. By that time, I'd grown used to the secret. However, I often thought there were probably more nude photos somewhere ...
Well there were. I finally located others, in a box on the back of a closet shelf. Only problem was, there were not only photos the boyfriend had done but others, too, taken by someone else. By and large, they, too, were rather tasteful and not pornographic except for a few. I felt keen jealousy until I realized the photos had been taken by another of Brenda's female friends, a married woman with whom she'd had a brief affair.
I have not been discomposed by that affair nor by any flirtation Brenda has had with a woman--I don't know why except that males seem rivals and females don't. Oh and incidentally, an "affair" is one thing, a flirtation is another.
I don't know if anyone here has had a partner who cheated in this way.
Well there were. I finally located others, in a box on the back of a closet shelf. Only problem was, there were not only photos the boyfriend had done but others, too, taken by someone else. By and large, they, too, were rather tasteful and not pornographic except for a few. I felt keen jealousy until I realized the photos had been taken by another of Brenda's female friends, a married woman with whom she'd had a brief affair.
I have not been discomposed by that affair nor by any flirtation Brenda has had with a woman--I don't know why except that males seem rivals and females don't. Oh and incidentally, an "affair" is one thing, a flirtation is another.
I don't know if anyone here has had a partner who cheated in this way.
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