Perplexed

good day,
       My current issue is a hot ball of wax. Dealing with my bf's family is wearing on me. My bf and I live together & his family is draining him , when all he is trying to do is keep the peace. It's hard to be around  all this and respect the fact that it's his family, and not mine. Am I out of line in thinking; that I am old-fashioned and love him and his family. It's hard for me to allow him to deal with it; and for this not to affect me. Any suggestions. There was a big blow out on the phone last night. Well today is another day; should prove to be interesting to say the least. I am one with God and the universe, and I shall have faith , and give it up to him; and try not to take it back.