Panic Attack
Guys something is off and I can feel it in my stomach!
Ok I think something is going on with Matthew. Like he is pushing himself away from me or something. He barely messages me anymore. When I asked if I can call he said he was cleaning and never calls. Then in the morning he says sorry I fell asleep. I seriously feel like something is off. I have seen him get on instagram multiple times but he ignores me. I called twice and got no answer. What is going on? What did I do? I better just be overthinking. He has barely talked to me since the bonfire and that night he didnt even give me a hug bye or say bye. The thing is I have a feeling in my stomach that something is off and Im over here having a fucking panic attack and I cant breathe and im crying. I dont want him to break up with me.
What if it has something to do with Brad? Autumn thinks that brad likes me and she said maybe it was obvious to Matthew. I dont think Brad like me but I can be very oblivious to these things.
Guys im scared I dont want to lose him!
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I will have to ask guys ik why he's doing that. I'll get back with you later today On that. <3 hang in there. Take deep breaths and try to relax. Ik the feeling.
There's a couple reasons why guys will do this. They could be testing you to see how you react to their absence, they could be avoiding conflict like if they might be effected by something encountering you, they could feel you're a little needy to them rn or has issues with the relationship. They could want a little space rn or might have someone else as an interest. I'm just relaying what I got back from guys that told me why they or their guy friends would somewhat ghost a girl.
Give him a little time and not message so much. They're like us. We get in moods where we will want to be left alone and get annoyed by a lot but in a couple days, we're cool. I'm here if you need to talk.
Hugs. XOXO
Everything is okay. His dad has just had him doing stuff constantly
That's good.