packing on hold

The last week I have gotten nothing done in the way of packing the house. I have been too confused on how much I should get rid of and how much I should keep. There is a lot of stuff that I have no great need to keep, but that I like. 
Instead I have just been sitting, depressed and out of it. 
Yesterday, hubby wanted to curl up and just not deal with life anymore - but I know him. If he does that he will get sick again. He wanted me to cook, but the kitchen is not clean enough for me to cook. So I am working on changing that. I am slowly working through six months of clutter and dishes. 
Of course, when my back spasmed while I was working yesterday, I finished what I was doing before stopping, and spent the rest of the day doing nothing but pain management. Today I am going slower. 
If I can get pain under control, I will go take a nap as I did not get any sleep yesterday. 
Packing is going to have to wait until the whole house is clean again - then I can see better what I am doing and feel better about life.