Out of Sorts Today
Morning all,
Well me and the stbx,have decided that we stick it out till the end of july,for 2 reasons actually,we are waiting on a settlement check from lawyers,and 2 the CD's come due then also,my lawyer says if we split any funds before I file,then it should go easier for both of us,as that part of the program will all ready be settled then,still many things to do,so this will give me the time to get them done,and him time to do the refi to buy me out of the house(No I do not want the house to much upkeep),so many things to do,and yet i dont wanna do any of them today.....I feel drained,mentally tired,emotionally distressed all this and i have to work till 5 today,its just 1 of those types of day.
Well me and the stbx,have decided that we stick it out till the end of july,for 2 reasons actually,we are waiting on a settlement check from lawyers,and 2 the CD's come due then also,my lawyer says if we split any funds before I file,then it should go easier for both of us,as that part of the program will all ready be settled then,still many things to do,so this will give me the time to get them done,and him time to do the refi to buy me out of the house(No I do not want the house to much upkeep),so many things to do,and yet i dont wanna do any of them today.....I feel drained,mentally tired,emotionally distressed all this and i have to work till 5 today,its just 1 of those types of day.
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By going to work, it gives you a rest from all of this grief. It\'s a very slow process right now but when you start working towards getting out physically and emotionally it will get better.
The stress feels like a ton of bricks right now but they will be lifted one day.
By waiting this will give you more funds to work with -- that\'s a good thing for U.
I\'m glad everyone is being amicable thru this -- it makes the process easier to handle.
I stayed 2 months after telling him I wanted a divorce due to lack of funds at the time -- during this time we started the process of splitting the bills.
Hang in there.
Take care.
with your b12 and vit d low that alone will make you feel more tired and sluggish when your levels return to normal you will feel somewhat better--the stress of your devorce and having to stay together until you have the money is so hard .I had to let my soon to be ex stay for 1 month--his whore had to go back to texas to handle her devorce-and he had no where to stay--it was the most misserable and stressful month of my life--so I sympathize with you haveing to stay-it is so stressful -hang in there it will get better-
--just take one day at a time and look forward to the day you can have your own place -