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I guess this has been the most painful week of my life. I hurt when my parents died but this has consumed me. As parents we want to help our children with anything and everthing but this is something I CAN'T help with.
Last Tuesday morning my youngest daughter and the mother of Mallory called and said Mama I am outside, can you let me in. Of course I knew immediately that something was really wrong! I jumped up and ran to the door and she just fell into my arms crying. Her husband has been cheating on her!! She was in a fetal position for days. She had no idea and the only way she found out was he confessed to her only hours before the womans husband called. I did not know that my heart was capable of such hate. We have raged, cried and I thought I was going to have to sit on Steve to keep him from taking a ballbat to his head. My Steve does not need this stress so I have had to calm down to keep his somewhat calm.
The story does not end there. After 2 days he has come crawling back, crying, blubbering and asking for forgiveness. He is so sorry and he tells her he will do anything, make a list of things he will follow it to the letter. HE will go to seek professional help. He has not left her alone to let her grieve him. Living at his mothers only across the yard!! My daughter is so hurt and betrayed!!
I don't know what she will do, but today Mallory is running a fever of 104 and has the flu! She was out of work all week last week and so HE is home with the daughter and his mother is a nurse so they are taking care of her. I can't go over there because I can't see his face yet, will I ever if she forgives him?
I can't risk bringing the flu to Steve.
I tell you this my DS friends because I want you to pray for my daughter and Mallory. We have agreed to support her decision and I pray that Gods will be done.
Thank you for listening. Wanda
Last Tuesday morning my youngest daughter and the mother of Mallory called and said Mama I am outside, can you let me in. Of course I knew immediately that something was really wrong! I jumped up and ran to the door and she just fell into my arms crying. Her husband has been cheating on her!! She was in a fetal position for days. She had no idea and the only way she found out was he confessed to her only hours before the womans husband called. I did not know that my heart was capable of such hate. We have raged, cried and I thought I was going to have to sit on Steve to keep him from taking a ballbat to his head. My Steve does not need this stress so I have had to calm down to keep his somewhat calm.
The story does not end there. After 2 days he has come crawling back, crying, blubbering and asking for forgiveness. He is so sorry and he tells her he will do anything, make a list of things he will follow it to the letter. HE will go to seek professional help. He has not left her alone to let her grieve him. Living at his mothers only across the yard!! My daughter is so hurt and betrayed!!
I don't know what she will do, but today Mallory is running a fever of 104 and has the flu! She was out of work all week last week and so HE is home with the daughter and his mother is a nurse so they are taking care of her. I can't go over there because I can't see his face yet, will I ever if she forgives him?
I can't risk bringing the flu to Steve.
I tell you this my DS friends because I want you to pray for my daughter and Mallory. We have agreed to support her decision and I pray that Gods will be done.
Thank you for listening. Wanda
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