OOPS I SLPPED UP WITH NO CONTACT

Why did i talk to him on the phone yesterday? I only wanted to know if he had got the kids presents he had promised them.Well i got lots of abuse because i said he wasnt aloud here in my house on xmas morning,so i pointed out that there is always xmas eve and boxing day . But apparently hes too busy to see them.Hes got plans with his new family.Yet im the one that gets the mouthfall of abuse,im not thinking of the kids,well i have to laugh cause who has been with them 24 hours a day since he went off.Then he has the cheek to tell our daughter that he wants us to be friends.