Only Over Time...

"After a while, you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul. And you learn that love doesn't mean lying down, and that a company doesn't mean security, and one begins to learn...
That kisses aren't contracts and gifts are not promises, and one begins to accept your defeats with your head high and your eyes open, and you learn to build all your roads today, because morning field is too uncertain for plans... and future shaped fall by half.
And one learns that it is too much to the Sun's heat can burn. That one so plant your own garden and decorate your own soul, instead of having someone bring you flowers.
And one learns that really can endure, that one really really strong, that one is worth, and one learns and learns... and so every day.
Over time you learn that being with someone because it offers you a good future, means take or early will want to return to your past.
Over time you understand that only who is able to love you with your defects and without trying to change you can give you all the happiness.
Over time you learn that if you're with someone just for joining your loneliness, inevitably you'll end up not wanting to to see him again.
Over time you learn that true friends are counted and who does not fight for them, sooner or later, will be surrounded only by false friends.
Over time you learn that words spoken in moments of anger are still wounding throughout life.
Over time you learn that excuse anyone does, but forgiving is attribute only of great souls.
Over time you understand that if you have injured a friend hard it is likely that the friendship is never the same.
Over time you realize realized that despite being happy with your friends, you cry for those who you left to go.
Over time you realize that each experience, each person is unique.
Over time you realize that humiliates or despises humans, late or early it will suffer multiplied the same humiliation or contempt.
Over time you learn to build all your roads on today, because there is the path of the morning.
Over time you understand that rush things and force them to go causes which in the end are not as expected.
Over time you realize that actually the best was not the future, but the time you were living right in that moment.
Over time you'll see that even if you are happy with the ones by your side, you añorarás to those who left.
With time you will learn to forgive or ask for forgiveness, saying that housewives, say that strange, say that you need, say you want to be a friend, as a grave, it no longer makes sense.
"But unfortunately, only over time..."