Only four days...
Well its only been four days since I got the nasty letter blaming me for all that is wrong with my daughters life. I was trying to wait one month before I wrote her back for the 12 page one sided discussion of how I did everything wrong. I don't know whether to do it now, or calm down a little , I don't want to make things worse. She hasn't talked to me in three years, since her father passed away. Just two weeks ago I did get a Christmas card, I thought maybe she was coming around. She probably knew I was feeling pretty good about life, so she had to go and screw with it.
Question is? Wait ....or go for it? I'm already miserable I don't see how it could get much worse.
Question is? Wait ....or go for it? I'm already miserable I don't see how it could get much worse.
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My vote is for either cool down or don\'t write at all. I\'ve been on the receiving end of those nasty, disrespectful emails from ES. He does it to stir the pot. I decided that I will not ignore a message from him, unless it\'s mean....I don\'t put up with it. For me, responding just fuels his fire. Wow....we sure never expected to be in this position at this point in our lives, did we?
Not at all did I ever imagine this, I should grandkids and visits from my children on mother\'s day and holidays..Oh well, life goes on.