My took three years but when I saw that papers, I cried. I think I was feeling sorry for myself rather than the end of the marriage that never was. So take it easy and take it one day at a time
Try to change your thinking to how happy you will be that this is over. It took 19 months for my divorce but the decision to leave took much longer than that.
As knuckle says take it one day at a time. Acknowledge the feelings as you have them and then try to let them go. I hope this is over for you soon. I know that feeling of wanting it over and having to wait. But I can tell you how good it felt to have those papers in my hand when I left the court house. I wish those same feelings for you.
Shorty your profile says you were divorce already. I\'m sorry if my post doesn\'t apply. I thought you were talking about getting your divorce papers. Now I\'m confused.
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I know just what you mean.
Hi shorty, divorce is so painful and so long and drawn out. Hugs to you and may you find the end soon and peace and happiness.
My took three years but when I saw that papers, I cried. I think I was feeling sorry for myself rather than the end of the marriage that never was. So take it easy and take it one day at a time
Try to change your thinking to how happy you will be that this is over. It took 19 months for my divorce but the decision to leave took much longer than that.
As knuckle says take it one day at a time. Acknowledge the feelings as you have them and then try to let them go. I hope this is over for you soon. I know that feeling of wanting it over and having to wait. But I can tell you how good it felt to have those papers in my hand when I left the court house. I wish those same feelings for you.
Shorty your profile says you were divorce already. I\'m sorry if my post doesn\'t apply. I thought you were talking about getting your divorce papers. Now I\'m confused.