on the up

I am happy to say that after catching my husband red handed with another woman i can now stick to my guns and not ever take him back. I saw it with my own eyes and he was lost for words. I snapped when i saw them and lost it completely, which is not me. I gave him a piece of my mind and for once he was quiet. He knew he was caught out on his lies.
I am now going to move forward with my life and not waste it on someone that does not deserve my loyalty and love. 
She is welcome to him and all his crap, she is going to need all the luck in the world, he is her problem now not mine. 
I know i will probably get some hard days but this time i actually know i can do this. I will not let him into my life again.
The love i feel for him will in time go away. every day is now a step away to me getting better and healing from all this.
It is his loss, he had a loyal wife and he blew it 
Time to start my new life without him now and get back the life i had before i met him. 
Thankyou to all my wonderful friends on here who helped me on the way.
I still need you all and i will try and help others like me on here.

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deleted_user
deleted_user

\"It is his loss, he had a loyal wife and he blew it\" Amen. You said it perfectly.
heyjules
heyjules

Lovin the new attitute!! RAWR
AndreaBEE
AndreaBEE

His loss. Go sister. We will get there.
deleted_user
deleted_user

All cheaters should sprout horns and walk around with a neon arrow over their heads pointing them and their indescretions out to the world. Don\'t you feel vindicated? Don\'t you feel validated? Rock on!
JOYHOLY
JOYHOLY

HELLO I AM IN THE UK, IF YOU NEED SOMEONE TO TALK, YES I WAS CHEATED TOO,BUT I JUST DESPISE HIM, HE MAKES ME SICK, SO SORRY YOU FEEL SO BAD, BE STRONG, LOVE LUCY**
Atpeacemary
Atpeacemary

You go girl, Stand your ground. It will be rough going, but there is a bright light at the end of the tunnel and run for it. Just sit back and watch a train wreck when he implodes. Hugs.