OMG!! another struggle

Hey ladies I am sorry that all I do is come on here and complain I just came to vent. Now I am trying to lose weight, which is such a struggle. i am really trying not to do another cycle until i at least lose 30Ibs, although I really should lose about 50Ibs in total. I am doing so bad. Everyday I fail at my attempt to trying to lose weight. I joined the gym but I am always so tired after work because my work hours vary and I sometimes get off of work too late. I really want to go about my next try at IVF being a better me. Why is it so freaking hard to lose weight. I am getting so down on myself. It is bad enough I am stressing over the fact that I want to be a mother and I want to be a mother right now, but now I am stuggling with losing weight to gain a baby. This is just too much. I am tempted everyday to say forget it and just call my RE to start another cycle but I would hate to do that and my cycle is horrible because of me not being patient and taking the time to get my body ready. God Please help me and give me the patience.
Im sorry for the rant ladies I just wanted to vent to someone as I dont really have many people who understands me.

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CTRYLVR
CTRYLVR

I feel for you. I have always struggled with weight loss. I am 60 lbs over weight right now, but I just found out about a 90 day Weight Loss and Fitness Challenge. My goal is to lose 30 lbs. You have to hear about it! Check out my site @ www.Nikkigotskinny.com. I don\'t have time to visit a gym and I\'m horrible at working out at home. I have been on my challenge for two weeks and am down over 7 lbs already! Let me know if you\'re interested! I\'d love to have others taking the challenge with me and have some support in staying on track to meet my goal.
calladreams
calladreams

ttc25, I\'m right there with you on losing the weight to get a baby (only I have a MUCH higher amount to lose!) and every day is a struggle to keep up with it. I learned that even a simple little walk every day is more than enough to assist in weight loss. I\'ve tried a few websites that have helped me understand weight loss and have given me some motivation to just keep trying. I hope you find something that works for you! Good luck with everything!
deleted_user
deleted_user

I have been there girl...I know all to well the struggle that is weight loss. Take it one day at a time. Make small goals each and every day. Today my goal is to walk for 5 extra mins. Tomorrow my goal is to increase my water intake by 16 oz. Small steps to the bigger picture. That is what has worked for me in the past.
Good luck to you, and I hope you find the method that works best for you.
deleted_user
deleted_user

I think losing weight is just plain hard! Have you looked into any fitness classes? I have found that I do much better when I take Zumba or a toning class vs. just the regular gym. I get too intimidated by everyone there. Wishing you luck!
ttc25
ttc25

Thanks ladies. I am going to try going every other day plus Sunday and do some cardio and take boot camp classes. I am definitely taking it one day at a time.
CTRYLVR
CTRYLVR

NP! I know how it is. Did you want me to mail you out a sample of the shake mix? I\'d be happy to do that for you. Go ahead and email me @ ctrylvr@hotmail.com or you can always call me @ 217-779-8233 and provide me with your mailing address. I\'m sorry I wasn\'t able to reach you by phone last night.
deleted_user
deleted_user

I am sorry. I know loosing weight is so hard. I finally give up and sing up for a personal trainer. It a once a week thing but it really helps me loose weight. Plus if you have an appointment, you will go to the gym. Good Luck.