Must be PMS cos it feels like \"everyone\". Really, it\'s three people in particular, but that feels like \"everyone\" when quality has been outmatched by quantity in posts.
Good thing I\'m resigned to the fact that I AM A WEAK AND HELPLESS VICTIM who can\'t function without being attached to a MAN, even though he will inevitably FAIL me because, you know, he\'s too lowly and far beyond redemption since he\'s a CHEATER.
But hey. I get to sit on my high horse and be superior to him in my misery!! *facepalm* *grumble*
People are stupid.
And I\'m stupid for letting them get to me. It sucks that I always pop in on PMS days when I\'m fragile and weak and needing support only to find myself irritated with people who, in spite of their own failings, don\'t deserve my wrath.
Peope ARE stupid. True that. But there are some who are not that bad and others who are actually quite nice.
It seems that DS has become worse since I have been spending a lot of time on it last time.... I realized then that it was dragging me really down so stopped soming here all together. Your entry suggests it got even worse..... How sad...
Can you please warn me who are these people so that I can avoid reading their posts?
How are you? How is your health? I can be good at supporting you in your fight with health care system - been there done that. Happy to support you there.
How is your daughter?
hugs
I feel fairly confident that the boards aren\'t really any worse than usual - I am just not tolerating the less-than-useful stuff as well as I have in the past. \"It\'s not them, it\'s me.\"
There\'s one lady who is really a ball of hurt and resentment, so she constantly drivels on about what a victim she is. I\'m certain I\'ve felt similarly, but her healing seems impeded and it\'s frustrating.
There\'s another gentleman, also a tangled ball of hurt, who liked to point out the evils of \"all cheaters\" in generic form. Most recently: \"all cheaters are bad parents\" and before that \"all cheaters are selfish\" and a couple of months ago it was \"all cheaters don\'t know how to truly love\" (or something to that effect). I suspect he is merely purging his own angst and disappointment about his wife, but I find it hurtful and offensive.
There\'s another guy who liked publicly chastising himself for his affair in the name of GOD. I seriously think he\'s got a weird kink/fettish and just likes the idea of people beating him up verbally in public settings. Or maybe it\'s the tone of his more religious posts that rub me wrong. A true Christian would know that forgiveness is possible but comes from his lord and savior, not strangers on the \'net.
See? I\'m just being a judgy b****. It\'s not THEM. It\'s my own attitude that needs to be reined in.
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Is the population pissing you off?
Must be PMS cos it feels like \"everyone\". Really, it\'s three people in particular, but that feels like \"everyone\" when quality has been outmatched by quantity in posts.
Good thing I\'m resigned to the fact that I AM A WEAK AND HELPLESS VICTIM who can\'t function without being attached to a MAN, even though he will inevitably FAIL me because, you know, he\'s too lowly and far beyond redemption since he\'s a CHEATER.
But hey. I get to sit on my high horse and be superior to him in my misery!! *facepalm* *grumble*
People are stupid.
And I\'m stupid for letting them get to me. It sucks that I always pop in on PMS days when I\'m fragile and weak and needing support only to find myself irritated with people who, in spite of their own failings, don\'t deserve my wrath.
Hmmmm I I simply can\'t imagine who you are speaking of. (Insert sarcasm here)
So seek your support here. What\'s going on? Hows your daughter? I don\'t see you around much.
Peope ARE stupid. True that. But there are some who are not that bad and others who are actually quite nice.
It seems that DS has become worse since I have been spending a lot of time on it last time.... I realized then that it was dragging me really down so stopped soming here all together. Your entry suggests it got even worse..... How sad...
Can you please warn me who are these people so that I can avoid reading their posts?
How are you? How is your health? I can be good at supporting you in your fight with health care system - been there done that. Happy to support you there.
How is your daughter?
hugs
Good days bad days on the boards. Sometimes things get off topic and heated. That\'s when the function of the board goes into the crapper.
I feel fairly confident that the boards aren\'t really any worse than usual - I am just not tolerating the less-than-useful stuff as well as I have in the past. \"It\'s not them, it\'s me.\"
There\'s one lady who is really a ball of hurt and resentment, so she constantly drivels on about what a victim she is. I\'m certain I\'ve felt similarly, but her healing seems impeded and it\'s frustrating.
There\'s another gentleman, also a tangled ball of hurt, who liked to point out the evils of \"all cheaters\" in generic form. Most recently: \"all cheaters are bad parents\" and before that \"all cheaters are selfish\" and a couple of months ago it was \"all cheaters don\'t know how to truly love\" (or something to that effect). I suspect he is merely purging his own angst and disappointment about his wife, but I find it hurtful and offensive.
There\'s another guy who liked publicly chastising himself for his affair in the name of GOD. I seriously think he\'s got a weird kink/fettish and just likes the idea of people beating him up verbally in public settings. Or maybe it\'s the tone of his more religious posts that rub me wrong. A true Christian would know that forgiveness is possible but comes from his lord and savior, not strangers on the \'net.
See? I\'m just being a judgy b****. It\'s not THEM. It\'s my own attitude that needs to be reined in.