Oh, No she didnt!!
So I was asked by my cousin to bring my step daughter to a bday party for her 2 yr old daughter. First off, my cousin is like 20 years old and ALL her friends between 18-21 have at least 1 or 2 kids. Anyhow my aunt walks up to me and goes oh yeah God wanted me to tell you that its going to take a long time for you to have a baby because he gives you lots of babies cus you're a teacher??!! WHAT THE HELL?? I am sorry I dont like to curse but WHAT THE HELL??.. She was like " you are going to have to wait for this one" SO I was like "well I guess my cousins must have did something right and me, the only one to go to college and get married first!! did it wrong!! Are you freakin kidding me!!! If I heard one more time, when are you going to get pregnant?? I was going to lose my dang mind!! Listen lady I am in the 2ww with 5 more days to go, this isn't where you want to go with me!! I hate this crap! I HATE the fact that all these people can get pregnant and I felt like the barren cousin. I am so tired of not being able to get pregnant. Seriously, I am so tired of this..
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What the...some people can be so insensitive. She is just ignorant and is looking to hurt someone, unfortunately you were in the wrong place. I can not wait to hear the good news in 4 more days. I remember when it did happen for me, I was so sensitive to everything anyone said to me. I am sending you lots of baby dust for a BFP.
WTH!!!! That is just crazy talk and you have to let it roll of your back. People just say the &%$$ things some times. I feel ya girl, this 2ww is no joke and for some reason, this iui cycle just seems more intense. However, you are almost there and I\'m praying your BFP is on the way!!!
See this is the type of thing to make blast on someone. Ignorance is all around us and we have to rise above and just let it roll the other way. I know what you mean about doing things a certain way and people thinking you are wrong. I feel good about your cycle. BFP here you come!!!
Thanks girls!! I am an emotional mess today that I had to get in my car..and drive for like 30 minutes, went to my mom\'s and went to sleep in her backyard and stayed there all day.. I felt so much better!
Don\'t sweat them. People will always say hurtful things when they are unhappy with their own lives. It was her way of trying to bring you down to their level. Have a great day and we are so close now. Hoping aand praying for BFPs for us both. :)
I think that thing that bothers me is when people say they have a word from God and it\'s far from being from God you know. It\'s something from them. Praying that a BFP comes soon.