Oh HOW are YOU....

Today I will do my level best to put on the face of HAPPINESS and DETERMINATION. So many times in my daily hustle and bustle IT IS HARD TO SAY THOSE FEW WORDS. How Are You. Honestly we forget that we have any problems just for a split second.      Then a horn or siren sounds and  we are pushed back to reality. Why is it like that.I personly think somewhere along the way we have thrown everything out.We tend to not care and then we grobble for what is left. Boy did I EVER SLAP MYSELF SQUARE IN THE JAW.  The truth of the matter is I HAD GONE THRU THAT PHASE and speaking to anyone just that simple phrase HOW ARE YOU was  like a dose of Castor Oil. I had to run and hide from society because I had become so parinoid that I was afraid to speak those words. TRYING TO DO THE THINGS FOR YOURSELF is hard enough but then you get those stares and whispers you have got to have enough guption to say NO MORE. then do something about it. MY PROBLEM  WAS I DID NOT WANT TO MOVE OUT OF THAT RUT. THINKING this was a comfort zone I  STAYED IN THE STENCH of PITY and OH ME. FRIENDS please wake up.WE ARE BETTER THAN THAT. Times have changed but I DID NOT WANT TO. Then I HAD A SITUTION hit me that I had to do something about it. This is easy now.I am not afraid to talk to anyone.Just DO IT as the sign says and BELIEVE IT.That was my problem.I did not want to believe it,but like the soap opera As The World Turns I had to turn with it. SOCIETY has STUCK IT TO US. NOW WE HAVE TO MOVE FOWARD. PICK UP YOUR ON BACKYARD.Remember that saying. We do not no how to TREAT PEOPLE. PLEASE DO NOT JUDGE PEOPLE BECAUSE THEIR LIFESTYLE IS DIFFERENT.That person may be the one to save your life.TALK TALK TALK. OH YES WE TALK BUT THE WRONG TALK. Be HELPFUL NOT HURTFUL. LEND A HAND,GIVE A HUG, SEND SOME CHEER. I  am not POINTING A FINGER WHEN I SAY THIS  QUIT BEING SO JUDGEMENTAL and PUT ON YOUR HAPPY FACE WITH A SIDE ORDER OF SMILE  and GO FOR IT.  BLESS YOU and HUGS 2 U. XO XO