October... a Love/Hate Relationship

Ok, I am trying to decide if I like October or not. 
26 years ago in October I met my late husband, 22 years ago in October I married him.    Oh yes, I LOVE October! 
39 years ago in October, (ironically the same day of the month that I would later meet my hubby) the lying jerk who broke me arm was born.  Maybe I don't like October.... don't get me wrong, I really do not blame him for breaking my arm, that was an accident.  I do blame him for breaking my trust.  I thought we were friends, but our whole friendship consisted of his lies and my truth.  I openly let him into my life and treated him like the friend that I thought he was, and he lied to me practically every day.
15 years ago in October we buried my mother-in-law, followed a month later by my husband's uncle.
5 years ago my  father-in-law died.  In October.
Yes I know that good and bad things happen every month of the year, and since I really do love autumn, I really do love October, I just can't believe October is here already.  Wasn't yesterday February?