Now what?

I am so confused and yet I know exactly what to do and even how to go about it.I  am waiting for the W-2 forms to come in to file the income taxes ( he has never learned how to do this and since I am competent enough in this area he couldnt figure out how to snake it out from under me)Once it comes back  I will let him know he has to go.I already know he will try so hard to point out he cant make it without me, he has nowhere to go, what will the kids do without him,yada, yada, skip, skip.Well I'll give him his half of the money and he'll just have to figure it out for himself.I have begun debunking his lies and will skillfully (through our friends wives) let the church know what happened and cut out any avanue of "poor him".I just cant stand the thought of him touching me. Thank God for 1-MY PERIOD! He knows not to touch me. 2-MY FILLING JUST GOT LOOSE!. which means dont even try to kiss me.I sure do pray that  W-2 form comes in this week.Please pray with me and for me and my children.I have begun preparing them for there fathers departure emotionally.They are afraid of him so hopefully the fact that they are emotionally fragile wont be an issue. I just want it to end, and end well. Even though I feel bad strangely enough I still have joy!