nothing feels good :(
Today was rather a good day. I spent good times with friends, we ate lunch. Then, i did my labs work, mostly worked well. I even went to gym but i couldn't do much. There were so many people in there.
But on the lot, i am not feeling good.Perhaps, it may be because I've met some people whom i don't like.
One more thing that's worrying me is that those guys in my class keep on bullying me. I don't know if it's natural of them. They are only joking i know, they do not mean what they say. As my friend says,"all boys are like this". I an wondering now, are boys/men not human being. Then, why do they just act like, well, sorry for the expression...
It is not acceptable to me now that they keep on talking to me like this, i should stop them but i do not really know how :(
I am too soft and i don't know, perhaps a little stupid too because i simply can't answer back and on top i never swear. My friends (female) say if i don't answer back, they will continue on like this but i believe it's the contrary.
On the whole, I am not being able to understand this kind of reaction and consequently react positively to this.
These people, i see them everyday, i can't avoid them...what to do :((
But on the lot, i am not feeling good.Perhaps, it may be because I've met some people whom i don't like.
One more thing that's worrying me is that those guys in my class keep on bullying me. I don't know if it's natural of them. They are only joking i know, they do not mean what they say. As my friend says,"all boys are like this". I an wondering now, are boys/men not human being. Then, why do they just act like, well, sorry for the expression...
It is not acceptable to me now that they keep on talking to me like this, i should stop them but i do not really know how :(
I am too soft and i don't know, perhaps a little stupid too because i simply can't answer back and on top i never swear. My friends (female) say if i don't answer back, they will continue on like this but i believe it's the contrary.
On the whole, I am not being able to understand this kind of reaction and consequently react positively to this.
These people, i see them everyday, i can't avoid them...what to do :((
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Bummer! Don\'t worry; I\'ve also often wondered if men were not actual human beings ;) Somtimes they are just so stupid!! I would not be rude or swear but maybe if you just stand up for yourself, condifdently but not rude. If you are rude, they will not take you seriously and they may just keep doing it if you keep quiet. I wish I knew more. I will say a prayer for you, though. I know that will help! *Love and hugs*
yea, i have tried all the things you\'ve said, but the last thing that i have done is that telling those guys if they do not have really meaningful and sensible things to talk about, please stay quiet and don\'t talk to me...so far it is working, now i doubt if that might remain like this (though that was rude), but they themselves leave me no choice..they only take pleasure in teasing me (because somewhere they are aware of my shy nature), i mean i know it\'s not serious but it gets irritating for me...