So true...some things from the past are better left just buried inside..life can\'t go back..you can only move ahead and be thankful for today....some times being a member of this group is almost more painful then not..I read other peoples stories and I am forced to remember things that I have long kept buried deep inside for many years...they suddenly surface and I start on a downward spiral. I have seriously thought of leaving the group for that reason. I am somebody who keeps a lot inside and I deal with things that way. I have done it that way for years..since joining this group I have revisited things that I never wanted to think about again and at time it hurts greatly. But I just have to try to put them back where they were once safe and smile and move forward...revisiting those things will do my life no good!!!
I\'m so sorry that you have some painful memories. I hope you don\'t leave DS. I will miss your friendship. I do understand though. Somethings are just better left in the past.
Thank you hun...I like it here. I have met so many wonderful people but I just don\'t like some of things that it triggers...if I ever do decide to leave I will let you know ahead of time so we can keep in touch. Hugs
Gosh hun, I would hate for you to leave us all behind at DS. Those journal entries that trigger you are the ones you need stay away from. Only you know which ones they are. I commend you for trying to take that which has happened to you in the past and put it aside, forget about it and get on with living and being happy. Don\'t place yourself back in your painful past, It was painful and it\'s past. Why would anyone want to go back there.Try not to read the journals that you know are going to trigger you. If it\'s a friend, and you see they have a \'horrible\' face icon, just send them a big hug and tell them how much you care and that you pray things will bring a smile to their face soon. Stay away from their journals and please done go away. So many of us would miss you terribly.
I\'m so glad i found DS. I dont know how i would be able to deal with everything I\'m going threw in my life without the support of the people on this site. I\'m so grateful. Thanks everyone.
Honey,If we are all honest with ourselves,there are always many people that are way worse off than we are. It is just we get caught uo in our own MUCK and sannot see much past it. You got the right idea. Youre going to make it just fine,Love peggy
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Your so right.....there are so many others dealing with so much more than you and I. If we want to be happy we need to do make it happen ourselves.
So true...some things from the past are better left just buried inside..life can\'t go back..you can only move ahead and be thankful for today....some times being a member of this group is almost more painful then not..I read other peoples stories and I am forced to remember things that I have long kept buried deep inside for many years...they suddenly surface and I start on a downward spiral. I have seriously thought of leaving the group for that reason. I am somebody who keeps a lot inside and I deal with things that way. I have done it that way for years..since joining this group I have revisited things that I never wanted to think about again and at time it hurts greatly. But I just have to try to put them back where they were once safe and smile and move forward...revisiting those things will do my life no good!!!
I\'m so sorry that you have some painful memories. I hope you don\'t leave DS. I will miss your friendship. I do understand though. Somethings are just better left in the past.
Thank you hun...I like it here. I have met so many wonderful people but I just don\'t like some of things that it triggers...if I ever do decide to leave I will let you know ahead of time so we can keep in touch. Hugs
Gosh hun, I would hate for you to leave us all behind at DS. Those journal entries that trigger you are the ones you need stay away from. Only you know which ones they are. I commend you for trying to take that which has happened to you in the past and put it aside, forget about it and get on with living and being happy. Don\'t place yourself back in your painful past, It was painful and it\'s past. Why would anyone want to go back there.Try not to read the journals that you know are going to trigger you. If it\'s a friend, and you see they have a \'horrible\' face icon, just send them a big hug and tell them how much you care and that you pray things will bring a smile to their face soon. Stay away from their journals and please done go away. So many of us would miss you terribly.
I\'m so glad i found DS. I dont know how i would be able to deal with everything I\'m going threw in my life without the support of the people on this site. I\'m so grateful. Thanks everyone.
Honey,If we are all honest with ourselves,there are always many people that are way worse off than we are. It is just we get caught uo in our own MUCK and sannot see much past it. You got the right idea. Youre going to make it just fine,Love peggy