not this again!

my ex....he's gonna end up giving me a heart murmur and gray hair!
just when i think i'm beginning to heal and have peace in my life, he HAS to find a way to destroy that. i have so much pain from all that he has already caused and then this shit again. read the whole thread: 
http://www.dailystrength.org/c/Breakups_Divorce/forum/10082103-he-just-had
after i posted this, i spoke to his bff again and told her to tell my ex that he has to stay away from my favorite beach and stay away from me. he can't come anywhere near my home or the places where i usually hang out.
his momma (who lives in Texas) better get him to leave this island because i can't stand this shit anymore. she'd better make him move back home, before something bad really happens to him. his mental state is further and further declining. his bff told me all he ever talks about these days is "wanting to die". and now i fear that because he can't have me, this will be a very dangerous situation for me. i'm considering getting a TRO.