Not sure what to think
Was very hopeful friday after my fiancee had his bronchoscopy because he seemed to sound better after it was done with the exception of his throat being raspy..... Well hes still getting winded whenever he transfers to wheelchair to toilet & back to bed when he eats & sometimes when they at the hospital give him his medicines..... I feel sooo bad for him.... I wish I could do something I feel sooo helpless I mean I realize that hes in the right place to be taken care of but just feel so bad for him.... He is my rock & maybe Im being dramatic but I dont know what would I do without him..... He tells me that he thinks that theres more going on that they need to find out... Hes aunt uncle & cousin is coming in for the day 2mrw from out of state so he wanted me to come up to be with them too although I had plans to wash clothes 2mrw but I will put that on hold I guess.... Im just so lost without him & pray that he can overcome this....
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be as strong as u can, sometimes we have to be a rock for our 'rock', u know? all u can do is pray for strength, and try to lighten the vibe- hes still there, so its unclear what might be around the corner, u have to be ready for anything, and do your best to be as supportive to him during this time. we can always cry later, when we are by ourselves or to a friend, even in a post on here, its important that u get it out- for yourself, so u can be your best for him in the long run. Wishing u strength and a speedy recovery for your fiancé #GodBless