Not sure what is going on
So, I was waiting for Monday to e-mail my RE to see what my next step was. At the hospital she told DH to make an appointment with her in a month. Now I figure DH got this wrong and that she wanted me to have a us in a month to remove my IUD. You have to understand, I have 2 RE. One that I see for appointments and that is responsible for my IVF cycle and one that is an RE specialized in surgery of the endometrium. This is my surgeon. I've never had to see her post op., don't I know everything ? Well in my e-mail, she said she wanted to see me in her office in a month to a month and one half (If I have a choice it's in a month !!!). She wants to discuss our game plan after my "last situation".
I mean, that doesn't sound good right. I'm alrealdy doing IVF, what more can we do. I'm so scared she is going to tell me we have to stop trying. When I first started my IF journey after my placenta acreata more than one doctor told me I should not get pregnant again. That I should just get someone to carry the baby for me.
Easier said than done. You can't find someone in Quebec unless it's a friend or family member. I don't know anyone that would do that for someone else let alone me.
Then she said we can take out the IUD at an other time. I hate having the stupid thing in, I can't believe it will take maybe an other 2 months to get it removed.
I can't stand the wait. Why can't she tell me now what is going on. It won't make a difference. Waiting will just make me crazy. I can't stop crying. I hate what IF has done to me. I'm so emotional and so negative. It's so not like me. Yesterday, everything was fine and I was just recovering. Now I feel like my world is falling appart again.
Guest I've decided I wanted a pity party. So sorry, I wish I could stop complaining.
I mean, that doesn't sound good right. I'm alrealdy doing IVF, what more can we do. I'm so scared she is going to tell me we have to stop trying. When I first started my IF journey after my placenta acreata more than one doctor told me I should not get pregnant again. That I should just get someone to carry the baby for me.
Easier said than done. You can't find someone in Quebec unless it's a friend or family member. I don't know anyone that would do that for someone else let alone me.
Then she said we can take out the IUD at an other time. I hate having the stupid thing in, I can't believe it will take maybe an other 2 months to get it removed.
I can't stand the wait. Why can't she tell me now what is going on. It won't make a difference. Waiting will just make me crazy. I can't stop crying. I hate what IF has done to me. I'm so emotional and so negative. It's so not like me. Yesterday, everything was fine and I was just recovering. Now I feel like my world is falling appart again.
Guest I've decided I wanted a pity party. So sorry, I wish I could stop complaining.
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I\'m so sorry! I don\'t understand why it has to be a month before you can see your RE. The waiting is the worst. It gives you time to think about things. I hope that it will be nothing bad!! Hoping for the best for you!! (hugs)
Urgh! I hate that you have to wait too can\'t she meet earlier? I\'m sorry you are going through this the IF waiting game is the worst!!
My appointment is november 8th, she wants my results back from my pathology, plus she\'s out of the clinic. I don\'t know. My DH saw the e-mail and doesn\'t understand why I\'m upset. He says there\'s no bad news. I just don\'t like game plan after last situation.
We\'ll see. My mom is coming over to vacum, I got to stop crying.
I am so sorry Roxy!!!! This is not fair. I understand what you\'re going through.
praying for you and hoping your RE has a good game plan for you.
I would be worried too-it is all the waiting and wondering that play tricks on our minds. I wish I could bring some cake to your pity party. IF sucks
That is odd she wants to wait a month before you see her again if its just to discuss stuff. Hang in their girl, I know this can not be easy. We are all here for you!
I am sorry you have to wait :( I think waiting is the worst part of IF especially when your dic leaves you hanging! I wish there was some way I could help. I don\'t really know the health care system in Canada... Would it be easier to try and see another doctor?
Well I could have gotten an appointment with my RE in 24h. She really is the best and if I have questions, I can even e-mail her anytime and she\'ll write back in a couple of hours. The problem isn\'t that she\'s not avaiable, the problem is that she wants me to wait and I guest that\'s what makes me think it\'s bad. She wants the pathology to be back on the placenta they toke out plus I think she is just buying time for me to heal. She knows I\'m in a hurry to try again and I don\'t think she agrees, I just hope she hasn\'t joined the other Res I\'ve seen and decided I should be eligible for IVF anymore.