Not sure what is going on

So, I was waiting for Monday to e-mail my RE to see what my next step was.  At the hospital she told DH to make an appointment with her in a month.  Now I figure DH got this wrong and that she wanted me to have a us in a month to remove my IUD.  You have to understand, I have 2 RE.  One that I see for appointments and that is responsible for my IVF cycle and one that is an RE specialized in surgery of the endometrium.  This is my surgeon.  I've never had to see her post op., don't I know everything ?  Well in my e-mail, she said she wanted to see me in her office in a month to a month and one half (If I have a choice it's in a month !!!).  She wants to discuss our game plan after my "last situation". 
I mean, that doesn't sound good right.  I'm alrealdy doing IVF, what more can we do.  I'm so scared she is going to tell me we have to stop trying. When I first started my IF journey after my placenta acreata more than one doctor told me I should not get pregnant again. That I should just get someone to carry the baby for me.
Easier said than done.  You can't find someone in Quebec unless it's a friend or family member.  I don't know anyone that would do that for someone else let alone me. 
Then she said we can take out the IUD at an other time. I hate having the stupid thing in, I can't believe it will take maybe an other 2 months to get it removed.
I can't stand the wait.  Why can't she tell me now what is going on.  It won't make a difference.  Waiting will just make me crazy.  I can't stop crying.  I hate what IF has done to me.  I'm so emotional and so negative. It's so not like me.  Yesterday, everything was fine and I was just recovering.  Now I feel like my world is falling appart again.
Guest I've decided I wanted a pity party.  So sorry, I wish I could stop complaining.