Not so fun Friday
Well - he has informed me that he called a realtor today and they will be calling him back around 6pm tonight. So we are going to do that tonight. Plus, go over the finances and figure out how to separate us there. I don't know. Right now I'm a little numb but I suspect that I'm going to be a mess tonight. Not the way I wanted to start the weekend. He changed the bank password for a short time yesterday and I don't know why. He gave me the new password right away when I asked, but it scared me. Is this going to turn nasty? I don't want it to. I'm not trying to do anything underhanded and I assumed he would never either. Of course, I assumed we would be married to each other for the rest of our lives too. I suppose I understand his need to protect himself but good lord.
I've been trying to keep busy and that has helped a lot. I have a meet up tomorrow with a local divorce support group and I'm hoping to make new friends there who can give me some advice.
Again, I don't know how to do this. Just trying to figure this out one day at a time.
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That is a tough thing to go through. I have been through it and I am here....again. Helps to have people you can talk to....nights can be hard if no-one to reach out to. Just writing here helps and when people respond, at least you don't feel alone, willing to talk any time u need if I see your post! Build some good friendships!
I have a feeling I will shortly be going through what you are going through. We have an appointment with a mediator in a few weeks, even though she said she's not trying to rush anything. We will definitely all be here for you through this. Lean on us for support. And just know there are others here going through the same exact thing. We'll get through this.
Thank you guys - it really helps to know that I'm not alone and can always reach out to someone who understands.