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DONE...DONE...DONE...& JUST DONE with these EK aliens! They're not our kids! They really are only appearing in the body of what LOOKS like our kids! Unless or until they step up & return to us, all we can do is live as best we can as who we are in the here & now. Sometimes truly sad, & unfortunately, WITHOUT THEM! If we subject ourselves to always risky interactions with these alien beings, who are NOT the child we raised, we must always keep in mind that we are also risking our sanity & heart to a weird & peculiar person. These estranged kids have taken on another persona. We are NOT THE PROBLEM! It's not us at all...It's them..! They do not deserve all this attention & effort or heartbreak! They LIKE IT when they get us unraveled & upset. These alien kids are getting wayyy too much attention & care for BAD BEHAVIORS! So let's remember to pat ourselves on the back & let these confused monsters OWN THIS! Then, I'm going to take a bubble bath & her dad is going to hit some golf balls. There! Now that'll fix her! Love yas all! HUGS
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Oh yes, dear friend, I agree. I have been preaching self love because we have to give them what they want and that is cutting them lose, and then we need to start paying attention to us, and for us that are married, to refresh our relationships. The future is what we will make it. I\'m tired of living in the past. I want to be happy again. I learned you cannot make someone love us.. it has to come from their heart, and like you said they arent them anymore! (hugs)