not good day
i just dont understand how life can be so cruel sometimes.how much can my wife go through. to hear all this news yesterday is just heartbreaking.
starting some research on hamilton because i know eventually we will end up there for the surgery. and it is all just ssinking in that this is real. this is really happening.i found myself planning this trip as a tourist.
the reality of it is i am not going as a atourist i am going because my wife is sick.and this surgery may make things worse if she ends up in wheelchair . and there is an 80 percent chance that will happen.
my wife has had health issues since birth why is still going through all these issues. she is a good person that doesnt deserve this hand she has been dealt.and i dont know how to make it all better.
i want to wave a magic wand and just fix it all for her. my heart breaks to see her in so much pain and know there is nothing i can do to make it all go away or even a little bit better.
i have been up most the night in tears over this situation.i just dont know what to do anymore.or how to go on.
starting some research on hamilton because i know eventually we will end up there for the surgery. and it is all just ssinking in that this is real. this is really happening.i found myself planning this trip as a tourist.
the reality of it is i am not going as a atourist i am going because my wife is sick.and this surgery may make things worse if she ends up in wheelchair . and there is an 80 percent chance that will happen.
my wife has had health issues since birth why is still going through all these issues. she is a good person that doesnt deserve this hand she has been dealt.and i dont know how to make it all better.
i want to wave a magic wand and just fix it all for her. my heart breaks to see her in so much pain and know there is nothing i can do to make it all go away or even a little bit better.
i have been up most the night in tears over this situation.i just dont know what to do anymore.or how to go on.
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I\'m sorry you didn\'t get better news. I hope the wait for the phone consult isn\'t too long.
The best information I can give you is to educate yourself about her condition. Information is power especially when dealing with doctors. I pray that if she has surgery everything turns out fine. I understand the wanting to fix her. We always want to be able to do that for the ones we care about. Big hugs, and prayers, Sandy
my prayers and thoughts go out to you. be strong. I wish I had that magic wand too. hugs Arlene