no Quilt for so long and not interestate(i know the spelling???)

I feel awful. This is my mother`s 80th birthday no family one friend and us(my 2 daughters are in George) I am sick started new meds on 7 jan 2010. I stop using my old pills and started a new doctor at ones. My liver Functions are skyhigh, pain and fatique is killing me and my husband is a dental technition and fitness freek. He believe I am too lazy I would get better as soon as I start cycling and get more excercize _ must lose wheight. I can just cry when he tells me that. He believe the new doctor and med should have cured me at least during the first 10 day of using it. How do I get it to him that this is not the case? Don`t worry i know I have been married to him for 31years, there is no help for ignorence. I just need to moan a little.....