No chaos

I've heard from 2 different exs in the last 2 days.  The first one wanted  to know about my new place and I wouldn't give him the satisfaction of knowing that it didnt work out.  I didnt respond as I would normally do in the past.  The second one i hadn't heard from in months.  I emailed him back with a short blunt email and wished him well.  

I continue to just make plans.  I thi k I need to focus on my health and have the surgery I've been putting off for so long.  My brother strapped me with paying the probate on my parents house as he lives there freely.  I decided it was best to go ahead and pay the probate as I want to be free and clear of any liability associated with the house.  I never lived there and I very rarely spent time with my parents but it seems in their death I'm stuck cleaning up their messes or so maybe just the more responsible kid.

Work is quiet.  I stopped talking to anyone their.  I figure the less talking I do, the less people will talk to me.  I've had no more drama in doing this.

I've taken the last few weekends off and so I will be working alot of weekends in the near future o pay this probate and then schedule my surgery hopefully.