Nice day outside
Weather is really nice today but a little chilly. Woke up early and im gonna cook some pancakes for the boys.
Still curious how she can go 3 days now and not talk to the kids. I sure can't do that.
House is cleaner than it's ever been. Cleaning up the house and organizing her clutter is therapeutic I think. Keeps me busy and my mind off her. I ordered a new dryer to replace the one she is taking and fixed the dishwasher yesterday. No more washing by hand.
The lawyer called yesterday and told me judge signed the papers. One less thing to worry about. I decided I don't want her in the house to get her stuff so I'm gonna put it all in the garage. She is not welcome in MY house anymore.
I still miss her but I realize she is not the person I love anymore.
My youngest is testing boundaries with me lately. I'm sure it's due to this situation. But I'm not gonna baby him, he will act right or get the same punishments as before. I'm also not gonna buy his affection like his "grandmother" does. Oldest has not talked to mom in nearly a month. She still thinks he has no reason to be upset and he will have to reach to her. He isn't going to do that and he doesn't need too. She brought us this pain. Youngest still thinks this is all gonna blow over.
oh well off to my pancakes
Still curious how she can go 3 days now and not talk to the kids. I sure can't do that.
House is cleaner than it's ever been. Cleaning up the house and organizing her clutter is therapeutic I think. Keeps me busy and my mind off her. I ordered a new dryer to replace the one she is taking and fixed the dishwasher yesterday. No more washing by hand.
The lawyer called yesterday and told me judge signed the papers. One less thing to worry about. I decided I don't want her in the house to get her stuff so I'm gonna put it all in the garage. She is not welcome in MY house anymore.
I still miss her but I realize she is not the person I love anymore.
My youngest is testing boundaries with me lately. I'm sure it's due to this situation. But I'm not gonna baby him, he will act right or get the same punishments as before. I'm also not gonna buy his affection like his "grandmother" does. Oldest has not talked to mom in nearly a month. She still thinks he has no reason to be upset and he will have to reach to her. He isn't going to do that and he doesn't need too. She brought us this pain. Youngest still thinks this is all gonna blow over.
oh well off to my pancakes
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It must be a great relief that the judge signed the papers , that is what I am waiting for. You have your kids with you and your just fine over there making pancakes. I think that is great :) , I think you will find even more peace once her things are out of your house. Have a great week .