For myself I became a vegetarian some 19 years ago, so I told myself that I will never again ever eat animal meat as food and THAT is my boundary and I love it as it defines my own identity.
I also told myself to really search for God - and so I have - and that too was my salvation because that opened up lots of cool boundaries as like being truthful and for me to be a friend to people, and do not lie, no adultery, love thy enemies, and all of those are healthy boundaries for myself.
Those might even seen simple, but if we look at the troubled childhood and horrible after effects on me as an adult then these boundaries on my self are really my salvation here and now in this life.
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Hi Kelly Jo:
The best of boundaries are placed on our self.
Decide what you want to do - then do it.
Decide on how you want to live - then do it.
For myself I became a vegetarian some 19 years ago, so I told myself that I will never again ever eat animal meat as food and THAT is my boundary and I love it as it defines my own identity.
I also told myself to really search for God - and so I have - and that too was my salvation because that opened up lots of cool boundaries as like being truthful and for me to be a friend to people, and do not lie, no adultery, love thy enemies, and all of those are healthy boundaries for myself.
Those might even seen simple, but if we look at the troubled childhood and horrible after effects on me as an adult then these boundaries on my self are really my salvation here and now in this life.
Just saying.