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Every other night T has been walking in the before 1. Although I had it in writing and talked to him - I'm not sure if it's purposeful selective hearing or I wasn't clear enough. He says he heard that if he's not home by 1AM on any given night - then he's not allowed home on that night. I told him no - once he's out past 1 - he's done - can't come back AT ALL until he decides to follow ALL of our simple rules and one being - home at 1 EVERY NIGHT. And, of course, it isn't just about that. It's about the drugs. Ideally, I would prefer that my husband insist that drug testing be included in it (I've mentioned drug testing to T) but I honestly cannot see him doing that.
We need a new counselor. This guy isn't what I thought he would be. He seemed great during our first round of crisis but now -- he looks at me like I should know how to handle this. In my head - I do - but my heart - it needs a little prodding. From what I'm told from other experts - we should be seeing this guy every week. When I suggested it both he and my husband looked at me weird. The counselor said "Why? For emotional support?" Well - yes and some direction....... hello?
We need a new counselor. This guy isn't what I thought he would be. He seemed great during our first round of crisis but now -- he looks at me like I should know how to handle this. In my head - I do - but my heart - it needs a little prodding. From what I'm told from other experts - we should be seeing this guy every week. When I suggested it both he and my husband looked at me weird. The counselor said "Why? For emotional support?" Well - yes and some direction....... hello?
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