new habits

It is said that 21 days is what it takes to make something new become a habit. I feel as though this new one of being honest is going to take longer than that. But still going ok. Am almost a month now. No lies about anything, to anyone actually. Has been very hard to be honest with some of the things that my wife and I have discussed, but it was never going to be easy was it. So far I have managed to get over my discomfort when we talk, but it is very tough going. I don't want to say or don't know the answers to the questions my wife is asking, and that can make things very, very difficult sometimes. Gruelling discussions for hours. It can leave me so drained afterwards. But my wife has to work through this just as much as I do, I owe her that much at least. Will continue on, 1 day at a time. Hopefully the habit will form eventually.