New addition, brand new spot

This HS just don't stop. I now have a new monster in a brand new spot, all over again. This time nestled snugly in my right inner thigh. Right now it's just sore like a bruise, and there is a definite lump, but thankfully it has not gone "postal" on me just yet. Just the fact that it is there like it is is enough for me at this point. It's like every time I turn around I have a new one popping up somewhere or one of my old ones is deciding to flare like hell. I know the majority of it is coming from stress. From dealing with my mother in law, to finding out part of my family is in town (but not bothering to stop by and see my kids, to hell with me, they should at least keep in contact with my kids) and that my cousin has apparently fallen back into heroin use, to dealing with DHS trying to get my medicaid, and having to schedule my daughter for an appt to find out if she has lupus, it's a wonder I haven't taken my brain out to play with it yet. XD
But that does have me worried terribly, to think my 14 year old daughter may not only have Asperger's but to also have lupus. For the past several months, she has been coming home from school completely exhausted, basically falling right asleep as soon as she comes home, she has all these spots from her shoulders to the back of her upper legs, that you would think was acne, but it's obviously not as no acne meds her derm has prescribed has even touched them, and constantly complaining of joint pain. It scares me because my mother in law has lupus, and I see what she goes through with it, and it is not pretty.
 
This is just another thing. This too you will get through, seems to have become my mantra lately. Friends ask me "How do you do it?"..I ask.."How can I not?" It's not like I have a choice, surrender has never been one of my qualities, and I'm just too damn hard headed for that kind of route. XP