Never thought I would find comfort in a support group.

My spouse of fourteen years informed me this week that she is unhappy, wants to be free, wants more out of life and wanted to discuss marriage separation.  Never saw this coming..thought all was ok with us.  She is extremely attractive, intelligent and has the kindest heart of anyone that I have ever met.  I cannot find it in myself to be mad at her...I am just NUMB..sad one moment, anxious the next, seems that once important things are no longer so very important, then just feel so all alone.  Realizing that these are normal feelings, they are abnormal for me and am hoping that joining DailyStrength will help with these awful feelings/emotions.