needing advise.
i dont know where t begin, i will start with i dont know if i should invite my grandma to my baby shower or not. my boyfriend dont want me too. but i dont know what to do. my mom will be upset with me if i dont invite my grandma but i dont want to upset my boyfriend either. i dont know what to do. i am so torn what to do. i been having a few problems with my boyfriend but its ok, its just stressing us both out with the baby coming. i been working so there is stress there then when i get home there is more with this. i just want it to be over already. any body that has advise will be greatly appreciated
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Hi Molly, I am so sorry you are having problems. It is your baby shower and you should be able to invite who you want to. I\'m thinking stress affects the baby and less stress would probably would be better. i think you need to take some time, be by yourself and really think if this relationship is good for you, You must do what is best for you and the baby and if he objects that you want to invite your grandmother to the shower, what\'s next? Maybe a list of pro\'s and con\'s would be a good idea. I do think you should talk to a therapist or someone who could really help you sort out your concerns, it sounds like you have red flags going up for good reasons.
First and foremost, congrats on expecting! I understand, even family can be stressful at times and that\'s the last thing you need right now. Its your shower, so you invite who you want to be there. You may want to plan a special time for you, baby and grandma once the baby is born. That can be more personalble too.
btw, I\'m on the same page w/ gem111 great advise:)
...your shower, your choice......!hugs