need your input and opinions.
:I know i am pregnant and can tend to over react and get emotinal over littel things. So please tell me if you think I am over reacting to this situation.
A few days ago i wrote DH a letter explaining that i needed more help. That im pregnant and things are harder with how tired i get. I have also been getting sick at night. Knock me on my butt sick. Well last night right before Ian went to bed DH decided to go get a new cell phone. So the kichen was a wreck ( i had just made home made fetticini alfredo) the living room had toys everywhere and Ian wa still up. Well i started getting violently ill again and spend 40 minutes in the bathroom. I call DH and tell him to get home. Well he says he cant because he is in themiddle of getting a new phone. Well about and hour pass Ian bed time i manage to carry him upstairs and get him to bed. I crawl in th ebed and and freezing. I have the chills. Well DH comes home around finally. I ask him if he will clean up down stairs. He always has kitchen duty if I cook. And i was way to sick to do anything. Well he is down stairs fr all of 2 minutes and comes up. Im like did you clean up down stairs. He said yes i was like really everything? You didnt just throw the dishes in the dishwasher you rinsed them off right. HE assures me everything is done.
Well imagine my surprise when i come downstairs this morning and the living room is exactly as it was when i went up stairs!! HE didnt do a single thing. Didnt pick up anything! I am so pissed. I asked repeatidly. I wrote hm a email prety much saying im pissed he lied to me and i dont want anyhing to do with him. This is unacceptibletome. Dont say you will do something then dont do it. I dont want to talk to him I am so tempted to not be homewhen he gets home today and go shopping just to releive some of my madness but im still not feeling to good and taking a 17 month old with me shopping kinda defeats the purpose of blowing off steam.
Do you think I over reacted or do I have a reason to be upset?
A few days ago i wrote DH a letter explaining that i needed more help. That im pregnant and things are harder with how tired i get. I have also been getting sick at night. Knock me on my butt sick. Well last night right before Ian went to bed DH decided to go get a new cell phone. So the kichen was a wreck ( i had just made home made fetticini alfredo) the living room had toys everywhere and Ian wa still up. Well i started getting violently ill again and spend 40 minutes in the bathroom. I call DH and tell him to get home. Well he says he cant because he is in themiddle of getting a new phone. Well about and hour pass Ian bed time i manage to carry him upstairs and get him to bed. I crawl in th ebed and and freezing. I have the chills. Well DH comes home around finally. I ask him if he will clean up down stairs. He always has kitchen duty if I cook. And i was way to sick to do anything. Well he is down stairs fr all of 2 minutes and comes up. Im like did you clean up down stairs. He said yes i was like really everything? You didnt just throw the dishes in the dishwasher you rinsed them off right. HE assures me everything is done.
Well imagine my surprise when i come downstairs this morning and the living room is exactly as it was when i went up stairs!! HE didnt do a single thing. Didnt pick up anything! I am so pissed. I asked repeatidly. I wrote hm a email prety much saying im pissed he lied to me and i dont want anyhing to do with him. This is unacceptibletome. Dont say you will do something then dont do it. I dont want to talk to him I am so tempted to not be homewhen he gets home today and go shopping just to releive some of my madness but im still not feeling to good and taking a 17 month old with me shopping kinda defeats the purpose of blowing off steam.
Do you think I over reacted or do I have a reason to be upset?
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