Need to vent
I have been looking over the parenting newborns support group and I have to say that I have never saw a ruder comm in the whole time I have been on here then the one person who was asking for help. she was asking about bottle feeding or something and she states that she gives her child cows milk but is not that spec about and when another lady answers her back about how she was concerned about this and gave her some advise on diff milks. this person bit her her off in my opinion. I personally went to the ladies site and told her how bad I felt that this lady did this to her and how I though it was nice of her to take the time out and writer all this infoe down. People need to remember we are a support group and asking for help means you may get some suggestions or hear things that you may not like but there are ways to be adult about it. We are Mothers and are in the same boat I feel. I guess I just wanted to vent. I hope everyone has a good weekend/
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It always makes me a bit sad to find stuff like that.Because you\'re right....we are a SUPPORT GROUP!! That means we are hear to give support and receive it as well. It was definitely nice of the one lady to provide all that info, and very rude of the other to bite her head off for it. When I read what you said about her feeding her baby cows milk, I wanted to slap some sense into her, and I haven\'t even read her posting!! Anyone who would feed their infant cows milk should NOT be allowed to raise a child!!! That is just insane. Their little bodies are not devloped enough to process it, and it\'s harder on them than it is good! Plus, it will most likely cause the baby to have major allergies to dairy. Why anyone would want to do that to their child is beyond me!!!
(sorry, I guess I am venting too! just wanted to show my support though of what you did with it.)
Oh no!that was not the best way to attend to a concerned person,the lady wth the baby was mean and that\'s not right,we shld learn to appreciate people that are willing to support and advice us.
the problem was she wasnt clear about what she was asking. alot of it was misunderstanding and cultural differences, some brits just call formula \'milk\' she said something like she is on \'cow and gate milk\' which i thought could have either been a formula or a brand of milk i didnt know so i asked. as well as alot of internet shorthand which confused things even more thinking she could have made a typo saying she fed her cow and goat milk not cow and gate... and provided info on feeding cows milk to infants just in case. here is the link to the thread http://dailystrength.org/c/Ages-0-1-Newborns-Infants/forum/3781687-advice-bottle-feeding-my
she replied saying i was patronizing her and saying that i must think she is stupid and that she isnt...both in the thred and in my mail.
plus it was 4 30 in the morning here...