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I always feel my journals aren't read. I know these are for my benefit so I'll post anyway. I'm somewhat sleep deprived. I'm over loaded on my work and just got notified of another very large job with a deadline that will be difficult to meet. Our roommate/friend indicated by actions that I'm making crapola for dinner tonight. I told him I was tired and warned him off. He is a bit old fashioned and thinks hubby should come home to a wonderful home cooked meal. This room mate cooks four days a week. His meals are wonderful. He doesn't like my cooking he is retired and can put the time into the meals. Hubby and I both work. I work from home. But I still out I the time in. Hubby is great about it. Room mate expresses body language of disproval. I'm so grumpy and tired. Who said it was a woman's job anyway. Not my hubby bless him but people in general do.
I get criticized for the house by roommate. He does a lot for us. I'm just grumpy at his old fashioned ideas.
I get criticized for the house by roommate. He does a lot for us. I'm just grumpy at his old fashioned ideas.
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HUGS SWEET,
BUT IT CAN BE CHALENGING ON THE BEST OF DAYS WHEN ONE SHARES AND HAS A ROOM MATE...
JUST MAYBE YOUR ROOOM MATE IS OVER STEPPING THE MARK BEING TO FAMILUARATY BREEDS CONTENTMENT MAYBE YOU SHOULD SET BOUNDAIRIES [[[I DONT KNOW THATS A HARD ONE]]] BUT ITS REALLY NOT HIS JOB TO PASS JUDGMENT IF BOTH YOU AND YOUR HUBBY IS FINE ABOUT SOMETHINGS AFTER ALL HE\'S ONLY A LODGER...
HUG HOPE YOU WILL FIND MUCH NEEDED SLEEP REAL SOON GOD BLESS.
Thanks DC I needed to hear that!!
so sorry sweets here\'s tons of hugs thanks for mine been struggling too. hope u get some much needed sleep wish i could.
I will pray for you angel. Thanks for commenting angel.
The roommate did cross the line. I understand you are busy. I will pray for help at work. Hopefully the busy season will be over soon.
Hugs
Your friend Jim
Thanks Jim. I felt he crossed the line. Then when dinner was ready he he had a late lunch and would eat later. I know he doesn\'t like my cooking. My meals are very simple and hubby and daughter are fine with that. I just have to not let it bother me. After all I do have a great hubby and daughter and am very blessed.
HI SWEETS,
IF HE KEEPS CROSSING THAT LINE MAYBE ITS TIMES YOU GIVE HIM RULES [[[THIS IS STEP 2]]] AND IF HE KEPS PUSHING DEAL HIM [[[WITH STEP3]]] TWO WKS NOTICE TO GET OUT AND FIND OTHER LODGINGS ELES WHERE [[[YOU DONT HAVE TO PUT UP WITH HIM AFTER ALL THERE ARE OTHERS IN NEED OFF LODGINGS IF THATS WHAT YOU CHOSE TO DO... GOD BLESS HUG DC...
I keep wondering if he is so unhappy with the cleanliness and the food etc. Why doesn\'t he find somewhere else to live. You are sharing your home with him, he should be grateful not condescending and judgmental.
It\'s your family\'s home not his. If your family likes your cooking then cook for them not for him.
Tks Julie. I wonder about that myself sometimes.
It is hard to live so closely with room mates .......I find you have to have rooks to follow so each person knowes what is expected of them ........older people are often stuck in there ways but that doesent mean they can\'t chang .........if he doesent like your cooking and he is on pension..and in good health than he schould eather cook his self or area god to eat out ....you don\'t need the stress of him making you incofortable in your Owen place ......I hope things work out ........I will keep you in my prayers ...god bless
Some times I don\'t get to all the journals but I do want keep so I would realy love it if you would sent me just a not that you puta post up .i am very interested in reading you post. I am all sp riting posts and am not getting were Maney answers I would like more answers .......take care .....god pless
Aww thanks muskratrigger. I will do that and ut means alot to me.
He does not sound like a nice person, how can your roommate not like your cooking and is nasty. He should be very grateful that he can share the house with you and your hubby. Well I can tell you one thing, he is missing out on all your lovely cooking. Hugs xx
Awwe so sweet. Thanks Dez. I\'m a very basic cook. So was my mom and I loved her cooking.
His mom abused and would use food. For example. Sliced tomatoes on plain bread for his school lunches. Of course by lunch they were a soggy mess. He has a huge food issue.
Then his dad was in the military. He used to get beat all the time. The house is another issue. He keeps to his room but cooks four days a week. I understand you need a nice clean kitchen to cook in. We are very cluttery people. He will spend hours cooking as he loves it. I don\'t have the time. He feels hubby should come home to dinner in the table. My hubby told me that we both work and that he doesn\'t expect it of me. I\'m just too sensitive.
So than