Need advice

I just don't know what to do my ex stole 2000 from me and admitted it when he was drunk but now denies it. Im suppose to go write my statement come Monday and have been trying to get him to just give me my money back before than bc I really don't want to press charges bc I am worried about retaliation from him,his family or friends but I don't want him to get away with it again when he has stolen from me for 10yrs if anyone has any advice on what I should do

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GrassoStreet
GrassoStreet

It would be worth losing the money if he no longer bothers you. If this is going to be a continued abuse I would hesitate to report it.
Freshstart21
Freshstart21

That's just it he is a narcassist he has to control my life but blows me off when he's messing around n than shows back up again to ruin my life some more and stupid me let's him bc I love him when I should truly hate him for everything he has done to me
GrassoStreet
GrassoStreet

You're going to have to give yourself some time to figure out how to best find your peace. I do know that you can not live in fear and still find happiness. Do you have family or close friends that can help you through this? I can understand that when kids are involved it can make things much more difficult. At some point, you do need to make a stand for yourself and your kids. Try to not make any major moves when you are upset, a narcissist will feed on your vulnerability. I know you understand that much better than me.
Freshstart21
Freshstart21

That's just it fear has always ran my life I've had a rough life even as a kid and have never had support of friends and family all I have are my kids