n posted a 62 questions about me (where do they get those from?)//placed out one cat & waiting on
so I'm reading through "Nicole's 62 questions about me", that I haven't posted on here yet. Its on 79pounds.
and it says, "my dad went after my mom with a hammer and i can't sleep at night if he is there." she doesn't trust him at all anymore....then she says, her father's brother is a convicted pedophile and a doctor in palm beach county and still working because her grandfather stole money to pay off all the families of his victims" and i'm like wtf?
i said this to b and he says, i knew this already. normally, i would be like, i wouldn't forget something like that, but i have a hard time remembering who i've said what to, and i guess i have an even harder time hearing people's little histories unless its written down. i'm like wtf? why bother knowing people like that AT ALL? seriously. you only live once, why bother? she says she has never known her uncle, everyone made sure of that. hmmmm, not sure?
then i am talking to t today and she says she works at a store doing stock once per week in addition to her high paying job at this office park. surprise and strange but okay. then she says she lives with her boyfriend, chris. hmmm, i'm as bad as everyone else retaining lies. unbeknownst to her, jf who used to live around here and died a few years ago, used to tell EVERYONE that t was gay. so what is that? she said no to dating jf so he made all this up and just one of his many lies. but so much for me, in REMEMBERING this about her and assuming its true. grrrr. wth? i've known her in passing for like ten years, not good. lol. if i knew that quote by heart i'd print it right here.
The quote is called Nasty Gossips,
"If you didn't see it with your own eyes
and hear it with your own ears ...
don't invent it with your small mind
and share it with your big mouth ..."
b says, the uncle is as bad as n is saying AND WORSE because he is a doctor and has access to people including kids, and there is trust there. omg! and he says, n's father does carpentry as a hobby and happened to be holding a hammer when he was screaming at her mom ... have no idea about it, you can kill someone with a hammer, so i'm with n on that, the guy must be a lunatic but they are still together?
we were robbed tuesday. i'm going to write this on another journal. no one has responded to bean's ad, but he is super nice and gets along well at the other house. lots on that as well. placed out a blue point back to the person that brought it in. it sounds okay so far. a few doubts, but that one like bean, would have been dead if not taken right there, at that moment kind of thing. same with the mom and kittens and she is super tiny, like 6 pounds, a kitten herself. so sad. hope the adoptions continue well with that.
and it says, "my dad went after my mom with a hammer and i can't sleep at night if he is there." she doesn't trust him at all anymore....then she says, her father's brother is a convicted pedophile and a doctor in palm beach county and still working because her grandfather stole money to pay off all the families of his victims" and i'm like wtf?
i said this to b and he says, i knew this already. normally, i would be like, i wouldn't forget something like that, but i have a hard time remembering who i've said what to, and i guess i have an even harder time hearing people's little histories unless its written down. i'm like wtf? why bother knowing people like that AT ALL? seriously. you only live once, why bother? she says she has never known her uncle, everyone made sure of that. hmmmm, not sure?
then i am talking to t today and she says she works at a store doing stock once per week in addition to her high paying job at this office park. surprise and strange but okay. then she says she lives with her boyfriend, chris. hmmm, i'm as bad as everyone else retaining lies. unbeknownst to her, jf who used to live around here and died a few years ago, used to tell EVERYONE that t was gay. so what is that? she said no to dating jf so he made all this up and just one of his many lies. but so much for me, in REMEMBERING this about her and assuming its true. grrrr. wth? i've known her in passing for like ten years, not good. lol. if i knew that quote by heart i'd print it right here.
The quote is called Nasty Gossips,
"If you didn't see it with your own eyes
and hear it with your own ears ...
don't invent it with your small mind
and share it with your big mouth ..."
b says, the uncle is as bad as n is saying AND WORSE because he is a doctor and has access to people including kids, and there is trust there. omg! and he says, n's father does carpentry as a hobby and happened to be holding a hammer when he was screaming at her mom ... have no idea about it, you can kill someone with a hammer, so i'm with n on that, the guy must be a lunatic but they are still together?
we were robbed tuesday. i'm going to write this on another journal. no one has responded to bean's ad, but he is super nice and gets along well at the other house. lots on that as well. placed out a blue point back to the person that brought it in. it sounds okay so far. a few doubts, but that one like bean, would have been dead if not taken right there, at that moment kind of thing. same with the mom and kittens and she is super tiny, like 6 pounds, a kitten herself. so sad. hope the adoptions continue well with that.
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so n\'s 62 questions also explains why her mother has so many memes about broken trust. really surprised. i know her father a little, her grandfather is violent, i would expect it from him though she doesn\'t. but her father never used to be (but if you grew up seeing that).
received a letter from advocates for victims of crime. didn\'t even know they had something like that. the woman with the blue point called for ear med and to say the animal slept with them, so hopefully all is fine there. still think it odd and suspicious she was looking into my car. that is a sign of a thief. normal people don\'t act like that.
saw rn and byn briefly, i was running behind. people always forget that i work. byn was explaining that since he drinks so much water in the morning drinking two 12 packs in the evening won\'t affect his liver. hmmmm don\'t see the logic there.
treated the animals with topical flea med.
was just reading through some of her stuff and its like, you find out something and then allll the other stuff makes sense. b also says when they were fighting he pinned her down and if she moved or talked he raised the hammer at her like to strike any second. his father was like that. ironic because the father is one of the grandparents n would love to impress (boy does she have that wrong). hard to imagine her father like that