myim deverstated
My nonbiological dad has passed away
I'm deverstated don't know even when he died his son is being really nasty
I dont know what to do with myself
I'm deverstated don't know even when he died his son is being really nasty
I dont know what to do with myself
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death is the strangest thing. It\'s as remote as ancient egypt and as unknowable as the dinosaurs. It\'s irrevocable, and in an instant changes life for ever. You go out into the main street and it\'s sunny and people are chatting with friends in cafes or carrying bags of shopping and people are smiling as if nothing has changed and you think ,,, WTF? It\'s a dissociation all of it\'s own.
someone once said that death is not an ending, death is but an end to dying. As pantheist i tend to believe this. If you were close to your non biological dad then i believe he\'ll still be in some way aware of you and wanting good things for you. Not that that will necessarily make this time any easier for you.
i\'m sorry his son is being such a vindictive prick. Do you have friends that will hold you close at this time so that you don\'t have to be alone unless you want to?