My week
Hi everyone! I still have been trying to underreact to situations that comeup. At work with the children and staff there. I may become momentarilyupset but I try to deal with the situation properly and then I try to let it goas quickly as possible. Being watched and seemly evaluated.One of the student's teachers came by to evaluate her and to check on howshe is doing. I was very nervous, especially when she showed up half an hourearly and started to ask me some questions. I was not happy about how I responded to some of the questions she asked me. Since there is nothing I couldof done to take it back, I forgive myself for have "goofed up" in my eyes and moveon. I have been getting along well with my family there were no big blow outs betweenme and my husband or children. Peace and friendship
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Wishing you tons of serenity and peace of mind. We are our own worst critics. Hugs, Oli
That is somehing I need to do-learn to undereact to situations that come up in my life. I always tend to react emotionally without stopping and thinking for a moment before I react.So glad you are getting along with your family:0)
Yeah, it\'s easy to beat yourself up. I want to learn to love myself instead. We all deserve our own love and I continue to be amazed and proud of your attitude and determination :)
I like your action of \"letting go\" ..not allowing that one experience to take up more space than it should..like giving it some time but then get on with life because there is more happening than just that evaluation and you are so much more than an evaluation. Th mere fact that you are having to deal with this internally and in a constructive manner shows that you are giving it your all... and exactly what do others see or comprehend? Not too much of the picture that is for sure. Evaluations lack insights...for it is up to the evaluator to be the judge and the less they know about themselves the less they will see on the external.
Peace and friendship to you and I enjoy your present avatar. :o)
I have been stressed out about meeting with my kids\' teachers and evaluating teams and keep hoping that I will come across to everyone as an intelligent and loving mom, hoping that they don\'t pick up on the nervousness I can never shed.