my visitor! and the fun we bn having

Brandy flew in Friday afternoon. i waited to wash the pillows and futon cover till the day before she got here so that it would be as fresh as possible... and then found out that one of the kittens had PEED on the futon matress all the way thru to the bottom! i think i know who did it too, i think it was Miko, that little brat! the reason why is bcuz he was hangin out in our room the one night and with out warning started peeing on OUR BED! we had to strip it down and wash it all, and i was already tired, it was the last thing i needed. so when i found the pee stain that went all the way thru, i figured it was him. i was so mad at him! mom and i took the matress out back to sit in the sun and i sprayed urine cleaner on it (with enzymes), then let it dry till the sun went down. in the morning i smelled the matress and it stunk! didn't even make a difference!! so in an emergency, i searched for a futon matress somewhere on this island. on Walmart's web site they had listed one, so i went over to them, turns out they don't carry them here on island! shit! Matthew and i drove around from store to store (furniture places) and finally found a place that had one, but it was over $200!!! i was gonna shit my self! but Brandy was due at the airport in less than an hr, so Matthew paid for it and said to get him back later. we picked up the matress and then Brandy since the aorport was a only few minutes away fron the warehouse. wewh!!! Saturday Matthew took us to the down town mall... now this mall is frekin HUGE, like a few city blocks stuck together and 3 levels high. Brandy wanted to go to a Harley Davidson store to get goodies to bring back and that's the only store that we know of on island. Then in the evening i took her to Yokohama beach to watch the sunset. it was so relaxing.  yesterday (Sunday) i took her on a drive all the way around the island. it took like 5 hrs, but we also stopped a lot for her to get pictures. i was sooo tired when i got back! and i still had to grill pork ribs! aaahh! and thn after we ate, i made smoohties for everyone... by that time, the varicose in my R leg was acting up, so i took my shower and had to lay down w my legs up. i guess today will be our chillax day since we plan to go up to Waimea Falls tomorrow and it's a 3/4 mile "hike" up to it (more like a walk). and the walk around the big mall was VERY PAINFUL for me! i could hardly make it and we only had a few stores to stop in. i had to sit at every bench btween stores and then it got so bad i had to tell them to just go on w out me while i sat there and waited for them to come back around for me. i think Matthew is mad at me cuz he was giving me attitude last night when i was gettin ready to go to bed. he was grumpy and then shut off the light while i was still doing stuff. he knows i hate that!!! and he said he didn't care! so i bithced him out and slammed the door on the way out. but as i was brushing my teeth, i though about it... and i think i know why he's mad. every night Brandy and i have been watching stuff on tv like movies and shows till late. where usually Matthew and i do that. BUT back when he and my bro got into their game fever they were playin it in MY room till like 2 AM, night after night for weeks!!! did they care when i i needed rest?? NO! in fact Matthew told me that it seemed like every time he started to enjoy something, i would take the fun out of it! i swear, men NEVER grow up!!! so guess what? it's my freakin turn to enjoy my self and watch whatever the hell i wanna watch till whatever time i feel like it! besides, Brandy and i like all the same stuff! LOL! so we've been having a blast! whoohooo! if Matthew wants to go and have a fit, he can just shove it where the sun don't shine. right? he he he... ok... well that's all for now... sorry it's long, had a bit of a rant here. i'm so thankful to have friends like you! God bless you all and hope your week is awesome! xoxoxx

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PeaceN2You
PeaceN2You

Having a good friend around who likes all the same things you like is such a treat! Enjoy - he\'ll get over it. He\'s just jealous of her taking up \"his\" time with you. Men are such chiildren - it\'s not forever - just for a visit.

As for turning out the light when you\'re still doing stuff, that\'s childish. He needs to work on saying what he\'s feeling instead of acting like a two-year-old, IMHO.

Enjoy your visit!
deleted_user
deleted_user

I just wanted you to know that I\'m having a blast here in Hawaii! I love the fact that we have so many common interests and have no problem doing things together! I can\'t wait to go to the falls in the morning! You and your family are wonderful! I just hope that I haven\'t been a burden for y\'all! I\'m sorry if I\'m causing a rift between you and Matthew. Let me know if there\'s anything I can do. Talk to you in the morning. I love you! Thanks again for everything. You\'re such an awesome friend and new \"adopted\" sister! xoxoxo
bluesun
bluesun

Brandy, you haven\'t been causing a rift. he just needs to grow up a bit. lol. i\'m sorry if his attitude has put a damper on your vacation. but don\'t worry about it, we will go to the falls, and later i\'ll take you kayaking and snorkeling.... it will be a blast! lmao. besides, i think he has retracted his claws... could be the midol i a gave him LMAO!!! i should give him some for real, huh? LOL!!!!!
deleted_user
deleted_user

Sounds like a great vacation!! I hope you enjoy your hike... I know you will be in some pain... so be careful!! Matt will figure it out someday... they always do.
Until then... you know what is fair is fair.... Enjoy!! Love and hugs!!
deleted_user
deleted_user

WOW sounds like fun but I cld never do that with RA and fibro and degenerative disc but it sounds soooo fun and even in hawaii with NO kids oh lord what that must feel like! Oh the answer about men trust me on this been married to the same dude for 40 yrs dated 2 yrs before that I really have my doubts that they ever grow up LOL have alot of fun love~~Debbie
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deleted_user

I would LOVE to be able to visit Hawaii. Of course I would be like Mr. T. (you are prolly a bit too young to remember him ha ha) they would have to knock me out. I don\'t know how many hours Lower Alabama is from Hawaii, and I prolly won\'t ever find out, but I am terrified of even flying from here to Atlanta lol
bluesun
bluesun

i remember Mr T very well! LOL! Go A Team!!
rockbabe
rockbabe

hi sounds like u had a good time,ok,hugs
deleted_user
deleted_user

I\'m glad you had fun and from my experience men never do grow up
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About guys, which men sometimes revert to: If a male is at the arrested state of development known as \"guy\", said male will remain boyish in behavior and character until initiation to \"manhood\",or until death. Such will act \"macho\", and think that is manly. When a fully initiated male turns up, and they are rare these days, you will know it. In the meantime, with \"guy\" Matthew, you will have some mean times. Get used to it. There is hope. If he is teachable, maybe an \"old school\" Hawaiian Man will take Matt under his wing and show him how to be a true man. Believe me, this is not meant as a put-down of your guy. He is alive; he can learn; and you both live in Paradise! Sorry the comment took so long. Seems lots of folks are partial to what I have to say. Semper Fidelis, Real Woman! Mahalo!