my sucky life
I was just informed that I cannot see my great niece or nephews again. My niece, Kezia is having problems with her father-in-law. He called Dept. of Children and Family {DCF} on her today and they came out and investigated her. He told them alot of things. But what effects me is that he told them that she leaves the 3 kids over at my house and I just got out of a mental hospital. That I had been in and out of there for the last 3 months. She had to sign paperwork saying that she wouldn't bring them back to my house anymore. Or else she will auto matically lose the children. That is not fair to the kids or to me. I just wish I had a gun then I wouldn't have to worry about anything anymore.
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Oh Jeanne- I\'m so sorry- I guess they have certain rules they must enforce since they are protecting kids. The word \'mental hospital\' has such a stigma to it- maybe you can have your doctor talk to them and clarify if he thinks you\'d be able to watch them. Then again- if you\'re thinking of using a gun to yourself- maybe you need more help- I\'m only saying that cause that statement is pretty strong and I don\'t want you feeling that way. Are you sure you\'re ok?
I am so sorry, Jeanne. Please don\'t give up hope. You have done so well rising above all sorts of situations and I am hoping and praying this situation is resolved.
Things can turn around. Keep up your good work. Don\'t let despair get to you. Talk to us and we\'ll try to help you through this. We love you. Ginny
I HAVE FELT THE SAME WAY YOU FEEL. SHE MADE BAD DECISIONS OUT OF DESPERATION? IT SOUNDS LIKE SHE FELT SAFEST IN LYING TO THEM.
I HAVE NEPHEWS & A NIECE I HAVEN\'T SEEN FOR YEARS BECAUSE THEY WERE LIED TO ABOUT ME.
INSTEAD OF BEING UPSET ABOUT IT, I TURNED IT AROUND & DECIDED THAT I\'M RELIEVED. I NO LONGER HAVE TO DEAL OR BE REMINDED OF MY FAMILY.
If you even consider using a gun to solve your problem then it is probably best that the children not be around you.
As harsh as that sounds they dont need to around someone who is like that, get the help you need, and all will come together.