My struggle

I know how to manage the every day anxieties: stress at work, being stuck in traffic, taking exams, all that good stuff.  When I'm in an intimate relationship, that's another story.  My anxiety goes through the roof and I feel as though I'm a different person.  I lose control of who I am and my internal alarm system becomes faulty.  Others who I wouldn't think twice about become a threat.  I want to learn to control my alarm system before I drive myself and partners crazy.