My stbxband must have gotten hit with the stupid stick

I haven't been on in a while as so much has happened in my world. Besides moving, I also filed for divorce. When the stbxband got his papers, he freaked out. What did he expect from me ? To wait forever until his gf wises up and dumps him?  He called and wanted answers as to why I would want to end our marriage...I laughed and said are you kidding me? He wanted for me to wait and give him more time to think...think about what? I basically lost my temper, told him that I wasn't going to be a doormat and put up with his bs anymore. I'm done! I don't think I've ever felt this empowered before...I like it!