My sons ashes

The funeral home just called me and told me my son Max's ashes are ready to be picked up. I thought I had prepared my self over the last few days for this momonet but I guess i hadnt. People say that God never gives us more than we can handle..well does having a nervous breakdown qualify as "handling things"?

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I just picked up my daughters ashes last weekend. It was a very hard day. I was so glad to have her home, but this is not at all what i expected. you will get thru it though & it will feel good to have him home with you.

i have had 2 very bad panic attacks since losing Kaylee. it sucks and when they come it is the worst feeling ever, but i made it thru them. so i guess i am handling it right? you will get thru this. Hugs